From spanking to sex swings, BDSM (which stands for bondage, discipline, dominance, submission, sadism, and masochism) has come a long way since its role in Fifty Shades of Grey. Many people who are new to the bondage lifestyle are looking for ways to explore the world of BDSM without taking it to an intense level. This can be done through the use of bondage videos.
So what makes for a good bondage video? It’s hard to say but there are some key elements that seem to underpin the best ones.
First and foremost, a good bondage video is one that is safe. Both the people involved in the video should be well-versed in the art of BDSM, and safety procedures should be followed.
The next major factor is that bondage is far more than just physical. It requires an emotional connection between the participants, and a good video will take this into account. This doesn’t mean each scene has to be excessively romantic, as BDSM is about risk and trust, but the energy should always be taken into account.
Thirdly, the atmosphere should be taken into consideration. Simply adding a few red lamps to the room isn’t enough to make it look sexy. Instead, props such as leather straps, handcuffs and blindfolds can help create a fantasy atmosphere that adds to the video.
Lastly, it is important to think about the music. Bondage videos have an impact on viewers if they have the right music in the background. Choose music that is alluring and that adds drama to the scene. Slow-paced jazz or anything with a dramatic edge are generally good choices.
To be successful, bondage videos need to be well-executed with everyone involved taking into account safety, the emotional connection between the participants and the atmosphere. Choosing the right music is also key when it comes to creating a video that is successful. With these elements in mind, anyone can engagingly explore the world of bondage, making sure that it is a safe and consensual experience. Click here to find out more.
What is the social stigma surrounding Femdom Pee?
Femdom Pee, or Femdom Urination Play, is a controversial and socially uncomfortable topic for many. While there are those who take part in Femdom Pee play as a form of exploration and enjoyment, there remains an unfortunate disposition from the general public. Socially, there is a large amount of stigma surrounding the topic with many deeming it perverse and, dare I say, abominable.
The idea of urinating on another person or vice versa is seen by some to be a violation of personal space and a degrading experience. This is an understandable point; however, Femdom Pee can be a consensual act between two persons who both support and enjoy such activities. It’s a kink that shouldn’t be looked down upon in general terms. Instead, an informed and judgement-free attitude towards its participants is essential.
Before dominating popular circles, Femdom Pee was rarely discussed as something that could be pleasurable. The assumption being that such acts would be met with criminal repercussions. Unfortunately, much of this stigma still accompanies anyone who dallies in the practice of Femdom Pee.
Slurs and other derogatory terms are thrown about disrespectfully. It is often implied that someone who engages in Femdom Pee is “less than or “not necessarily sexual (whatever that may mean). Although participants of the practice fully understand that Femdom Pee is a consensual, and indeed exciting act, for those who partake in it, the public’s reaction can be incredibly hurtful.
It’s difficult to combat such social exclusion; however, as awareness of fetishes, lifestyles, and competitions becomes more accessible, allowing an understanding of people’s personal fetishes and fantasies is the key. It is essential that we take the time to educate ourselves on activities such as Femdom Pee, instead of condemning them.
Perhaps it’s time that we started opening ourselves up to understand the nuances of Femdom Pee, and begin to recognize the positives that this practice offers. After all, no matter how we may feel about it individually, it is simply a form of BDSM between two people that should not be vilified. By exploring and better understanding Femdom Pee, we can hopefully lessen its social stigma and create a culture that is more accepting of alternative lifestyles and practices.
